Not chasing your ex girlfriend is the first thing you should know about how to win love back.

A lot of guys think they need to purse their ex’s by calling them all the time, constant texting, and worse, stalking their every move. They even send them small presents or maybe even some flowers.

Doing this will make you look extremely desperate and is the wrong approach. Women do not like wimpy guys. They prefer strong guys that are sure of themselves. They like to play head games and when you come across as desperate, you are the perfect target for those games. She may do things like have you over to her place at the same time she has a new guy “friend” visiting. She’ll act as if she is interested in you, then go off elsewhere as if you don’t exist.

If you succumb to this type of trap, more games are sure to follow. This will not help you figure out how to win love back.

Rather than acting desperate and chasing after her, turn the tables by playing your own games and get her to come begging after you.

When she is around, flirt with other girls as if she isn’t even there. This works especially well if there is another girl there that she doesn’t like at all. Give that girl some extra attention! When your ex feels ignored, she is going to want to come back to you. She will be reminded of all your charms, and will not be happy they are not being applied to her.

Taking one of her good friends out for dinner is a great idea. During the date, send a text to your ex asking for her opinion on something. Then ask her where she thinks you should take her friend after dinner. This will no doubt get her jealous and is a sneaky trick for how to win love back.

Maybe playing head games is not something you want to do. There are other things you can do, and one of them is just being happy.

Dating happy guys is something girls like to do. Put the focus on yourself, and not on your ex girlfriend. Doing so will give you a greater chance of winning her back.

Work out to stay fit and healthy. Go out with your friends and have fun. Get back to a hobby that got put aside when you spending time with your ex. Date other girls. Even if you are not really happy, doing these things will eventually lead to happiness.

So even if you do not get your ex girlfriend back, you will be a much happier person. Follow this advice and you are well on your way to figuring out how to win love back.

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You used to get dozens of calls and texts from your ex when you were together, but now your cell is painfully quite. By staying in touch once a week or so, without overdoing it, you keep the possibility of reconciliation open.

It’s important to always call your ex on birthdays and other important days. When trying to win ex back, it always helps to send a nice card or gift once in a while.

You should also stay in contact via email as well. If you see something in the news they might like, send it to them with a brief note. Consider having an email list of friends, with your ex in it of course, where you send out funny jokes, some info or just some updates about yourself.
 

Will you be dating others as you try and win ex back? Not if you are serious about winning back your ex. Having sex with someone else is not a good idea when thinking about getting back together with your ex. Others might say it’s a good idea to get your ex jealous by dating others, but games like this will cause even more problems for the two of you when finally do get back together.

However, If your ex decides to date others, try not to get jealous. Don’t forget, your ex called it off, so going out with others is not cheating. Take a look at who they are dating to figure out what they are looking for in a mate.

Maybe your ex left you because you were getting to laid back in the relationship and they are now seeing someone that is more outgoing and exciting. If you sat around on the couch all the time watching TV and your ex is now dating someone that enjoys the outdoors, maybe you need to change your habits and become more outgoing.

To find out what your ex wants and needs in a partner, try and study and analyze them. Don’t forget that since you are no longer together, there will be some walls built up between the two of you. With your feeling and emotions out of the way, this can make it easier to see what they need and desire from a mate. Take a good look at their actions and pay close attention to what they say as well as what they don’t say.

Make sure you keep your cards close to your chest, as your ex now holds the power in the relationship. Don’t give them even more power by divulging your inner most feelings. Don’t let them control the future by letting them know they are the only one you need in your life. You need to keep some of the power yourself by holding your cards close to your chest. This is important after you win ex back for the restoration of the relationship.

Work on improving yourself while you two are not together. Exercise to stay in shape and look good. Change the style of your hair or just get it cut. Don’t forget to work on improving your mind as well. By doing these things to improve yourself, your ex will be more attracted to you.

So would you rather get your ex back by solving the issues that troubled your relationship, or would you rather play silly games that could end up making things much worse? Work on the problems to solidify the future of the relationship and you are well on your way to knowing how to win ex back.